Premarital Sex is Beneficial — 5 Reasons Why Sex Before Marriage is Advisable

Hello! And thanks for clicking the link. Pretty sure you’re wondering, “what the hell is this supposed to mean?” Don’t worry, we will clear the air. Many people believe that premarital sex is wrong. In Christianity, it’s pointed as a sin. But when you come to think of it, is it really though? Waiting until the night of your wedding to have sex is completely okay, and so is having premarital sex.

When you look at it from a certain perspective, you’ll realize the benefits that are in this act, and these benefits are… well… beneficial to the future of couples. What we would never do, is condemn your religious, or cultural beliefs. But in this article today, we’ll be running briefly on 5 reasons premarital sex is advisable.

1.Compatibility

Sex is an act that is meant to be enjoyed by the both parties. Now if you are sexually active, and your girlfriend isn’t, you’ll know there’s a problem. Or, if she’s high and you’re low.

Or if you discover that your partner’s physique or appearance while naked isn’t soothing, you know there’s a huge problem. So most times, people have premarital sex to check if they’re compatible together.

Cause marriage is something that should last forever, now imagine getting married to someone who you can’t have sex with comfortably?

2. Emotional Intimacy

Like it or not, sex creates a stronger bond between people. It makes people want to always do it with each other, if they’re compatible, especially women. Women most times feel a deeper connection between them and their partner, and it gives them courage to have it again.

This builds trust and often time faithfulness, i.e , “hey, you’re the only one seeing my nakedness.” This increases emotional health in many ways.

3. Desires and Boundaries

Desires and Boundaries are very important to know, don’t just take them light. A woman and her husband once had a divorce case, because the woman was not happy with the fact that her husband was a sex addict.

He always wanted to have sex, every single day, and time, she almost got the feeling he’d turn infidel because she refused him of her body. She couldn’t keep up, and filed for a divorce. If she had known her partner before then, she wouldn’t have made the mistake of getting married to him. Women aren’t left out too.

A man divorced his wife, because she wasn’t good in bed. He said he had tried his best to be patient with her, but she wasn’t satisfying his sexual urges, so he couldn’t keep up with it. If they had had sex when they were dating, he would have known before getting married to her. Now he had to file for a divorce, because he wasn’t getting what he wanted, when he could have avoided it.

4. Red Flags

Red flags are things you should definitely avoid. How would you know that your soon to be bride doesn’t keep her private part clean, if you haven’t checked. Once you’ve sealed the bond, you’ve sealed it. And filing for a divorce is really that much of a big deal.

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There are red flags people hate during sexual intercourses, but when they get married without having sex, they wouldn’t get to know the flags until their wedding night.

A red flag can be a cheat, poor hygiene, or making some kind of sounds during sex, might be pissing. And it’s very important that you can actually avoid making vows on the altar to someone you may never be comfortable with.

5. Reduced Stress On Wedding Night

Having sex on your wedding night has got to be the biggest deal to women. For many women, they believe having sex on the wedding night is very important, and they might develop pressure and anxiety.

As virgins, their worry would be the pain that comes with having sex for the first time, which may even lead to not even having it due to extreme pain. And when you don’t have it on your wedding night, with a turned on husband, problems may begin.

But if you guys have sorted it before getting married, what are the chances that you’ll enjoy yourselves. A man and a woman who have already had sex before marriage, would find it easy during their wedding night.

Premarital sex isn’t compulsory, so if you choose not to have sex before getting married, it’s still okay. Let’s just say premarital sex is out of necessity, so that you can get to know your partner before hand. Whether you choose to have sex or not, it is your sole choice.

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